UNIT 7

The Mp3 exercise was very interesting.  I found that it was easier to follow than any other thus far.  I could visualize a mentor better than any other thing I have tried.  I kind of have given it the face a mix of Merlin, Moses, and Charleton Heston, go figure.  I gave a face to my meditation and that was what made it easy.

Using the phrase: "One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself"

It reminds me of educating patients as a nurse only to find them back in the ER soon after because they were noncompliant with the teachings or medication regimen.  This could be said of being a nurse and keeping up with the continuing education.  Although it is a part of our licensure many try to slack off and get by.  I keep up with mine through going back to college but many try to get by not doing it.

You have to want to keep up and do the things you should because no one can make you.

Unit 6 exercise

Describe the exercise and assessment process.

The exercise made me feel good all over.  I realize I do this for a living at work as a nurse I practice this without trying.  This reminds me of reciting the Rosary to myself during times of need and despair. I really liked it.

The assessment was a little more difficult.  I had to search my soul for the problemsin my life and how they relate to my health.  I found that I am an emotional eater which adds to my obesity.  Which adds to my  health issues of Diabetes and high blood pressure.  Whuich adds to my displeasure with myself and so on.  I eat when I am sad or happy.  When I have had major problems I do not eat at all then my diabetes kicks up.  I am dissatisfied with the way I look and my self esteem sucks.

 What did you discover about yourself?

I discovered I am a mess and need to straighten out my thought processes and get it together.  I normally present a very self assured front that is well knowledgeable and stable.  I wonder how much of that is denial about how much I want to hide.

What area have you chosen to be a focus of growth and development? Why?

I have chosen to focus on my mind and body development.  Exercise with my daughter now that she is here and have her help me with exercises to clear my mind.  Together I can conquer my issues.

What are some specific exercises or activities that you can implement to foster greater wellness in this area?  I want to start walking at the lake with my daughter and my dog in the morning or evening.  I want to swim and do palates to integrate mind exercises and stretching.

UNIT 5

1.Compare and contrast the Loving Kindness exercise and the Subtle mind exercise. Explain your experience including the benefits, frustrations etc.

I like the subtle more because it was just that subtle.  I didn’t feel like I had to focus too much on any one thing.  Where as with the loving kindness exercise, I had to focus on absorbing the negative of others. 

2.Discuss the connection of the spiritual wellness to mental and physical wellness. Explain how the connection is manifested in your personal life.

I find that when I am physically or mentally low, I turn to my religious upbringing for peace and calm.  Going through the prayers and repeating the rosary is a healing balm at times.  I find if I attend church on a regular basis it seems to help even out my mind and in turn my body(health).  When my mind and health are good I tend to forget about the spiritual.  I don’t know why that happens or maybe could it be that the spiritual is taken care of if the mind and body are healthy?  I think so.

1.Describe your experience. Did you find it beneficial? Difficult? Why or why not? Would you recommend this to others? Why or why not?

I felt relaxed related to the voice on the mp3.  I tried using my daughter but she is easily distracted and joked the whole time.  I tried my son who is younger and it worked better.  My son is very giving and not to a stage of judgmental that other kids his age are.  I received a very warmth feeling from this exercise. 

I read quite a bit on paranormal and science fiction so the exercise on talking in someone else’s feelings wasn’t very foreign.  I feel like I do that being a nurse anyway in a matter of speaking.  I have my own way of visualizing it.  I imagine pulling away the negative and eating it whole to take it away.  I found myself amazed that I could concentrate in it that long.  I will bring this into practice at work tonight.

2.What is the concept of "mental workout"? What does the research indicate are the proven benefits of a mental workout? How can you implement mental workouts to foster your psychological health?

Mental workouts can take many forms.  There are puzzles, computer workouts, and concentration exercises to name a few.  Whatever it is though, mental workouts are to keep are mind fresh and open.  According to Walter Perrig, (Professor at the University of Bern and conductor of a study in 2008,)the more you exercise the brain the stronger it becomes like in the case with sports and muscle growth.  So it stands to reason that the stronger your brain the more likely to become psychologically fit.

According to Dacher,  "Once we have achieved a healthy psychology, it is time to leave the psychological focus and begin to explore the deeper nature of the mind.  In this way, psychological development becomes a springboard for spiritual development."    Then we can move on to flourishing and loving kindness. 

Perrig, Walter,”Mental workout 'boosts the brain', as retrieved from: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7373026.stm on 06/08/12

Dacher, E.S. (2006). Integral health: A path to human flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications, Inc

goodness me it's unit 3

Welcome one and all,
I am so happy that graduation is over and I have one more child successfully out of highschool.  Maybe now I can concentrate a little better.  It has been crazy but now it is starting to settle down.
I have answered the questions for unit 3.

1.Based on your reflections, and on a scale of 1 to 10 (ten being optimal wellbeing), where do you rate your A-physical wellbeing, B-spiritual well-being, C-psychological well-being? Why?

Based on my reflection I would rate my physical wellbeing a 6 out of 10.  I do this because I have diabetes and high blood pressure.  They are very well controlled but I am still obese and have a tendency to eat for the sake of eating.  I would rate my spiritual wellbeing a 5 out of 10.  I do this because we are in between churches at the moment and I am not satisfied with where I am spiritually.  I do not believe there is a completely right religion.  I believe in God but I think man has skewed some of the writings to his favor at different points in history.  I also feel that I need to connect more with my inner self and find my center.  Find more of my inner peace.  This is related to my stress level.  I rate my psychological well-being at a 5 out of 10 at the moment related to stress with my ex-husband over my middle and oldest children.  I am trying to let things slide off my back but when it comes to my children I am very protective and things get to me more than they should.  If it were not for the graduation, I do not think I would be so wound tight.  My husband has been great and very supportive.

2.Develop a goal for yourself in each area (physical, spiritual, psychological).

Physical goal- My husband and I have decide to walk every day for 30 minutes then progress up to 1 hour daily to work off stress.  Spiritual goal- I am going to go to church (different ones weekly) until I find one I like and I am going to start doing Yoga again to find my center.  Psychological goal- I am going to working on breathing exercises to work through stress and anxiety.  Now that graduation is over I will have little to no contact with my ex-husband (hopefully).  I am hoping that this will be helpful.

3.What activities or exercise can you implement in your life to assist in moving toward each goal?

I am going to walk to help work off stress, breathing exercises to help anxiety and yoga to find my center.

4.Complete the relaxation exercise The Crime of the Century. To hear this exercise, click here. Describe your experience. (What it beneficial? Frustrating? etc.)  I fell asleep during the exercise.  I really tried to listen but got too relaxed and went to sleep.  That was frustrating in itself.  I think that yoga may be a better relaxation technique or walking for my ADD.

I hope you all have a great day,

Tammy